Victim blaming.
It`s a thing we usually stand against. Yet many fail to so without even thinking about it. Once a victim of rape have been drunk, flirtatious, provocative dressed, under the influence of drugs or have an edgy sexual history, the people around often points fingers. Not at the rapist, but at the victim. And in many cases the rapists don`t even know they are a rapist.
Bottom line is.... if the victim didn`t say yes, it`s considered to be rape, and the only one to blame then is the rapist.
